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Kyra Lise's avatar

Hii. Just wondering if you have reconsidered any of your thinking about transgender care after the wave of press which better situated Ms Reeds “whistleblower” complaint as inaccurate and ill-construed. (I put whistleblower in quotes because I don’t consider the Free Press capable of the due diligence a major news outlet would need to evaluate a claim like this and also that Ms Reed chose not to take her whistleblower complaint to the large university system she worked for, the local paper or the States AG office ). The recent reporting on her claims are simply that her comments could not be corroborated and in most cases discovered to directly contradict the policies and documented practices of the clinic. Her complaint worried me at first but it seemed off at first glance. I know how difficult it is to get this care anywhere even if you have insurance and how much counseling you need before they even talk about medical intervention but who knows maybe this clinic has so much money they can subsidize their care with grants or something. But no. They see a small number of folks and their care is fairly typical That is In most cases six months to a year even for adults to get any kind of medical intervention. Apparently in the past 5 years 122,000 minors have been diagnosed with gender dysphoria in the US and under 15,000 have had some sort of pharmaceutical therapy for it. So I know you are enthusiastic about the Free Press and Bari in particular but it felt like a pretty shoddy product breathlessly hyped and not responsible journalism in the end.

Joshua Doležal's avatar

Thanks for the term "dog's breakfast" (new to me, but a lot of things are) and for alerting me to Hersh's Substack. I've thought about pitching The Free Press, and you've now given me a nudge to do so. You capture the heart of the issue with current discourse about transitioning. It's related to the controversies about certain books in school libraries, which I can't say that I feel strongly about one way or another. But on the NY TImes' podcast The Daily, there was an episode last fall about parents who are concerned about their kids being encouraged, by teachers or staff, to read books that include instructions about how to hook up with someone on dating apps. And it does trouble me greatly to read that teachers and counselors frequently hide conversations about gender from parents. A friend of mine has a child who has changed their name after graduating from an elite women's college where this apparently was a popular thing to do. He is trying to be supportive, but there is real pain there. I'm not saying that a parent has any explicit right to name a child for life (this has always seemed a little odd to me), but there often is some emotional investment in a name, some tie to family history, that it is fairly insensitive to dismiss. It's not just the name, there's a lot of grieving involved regarding memories of a child's early years, maybe some guilt about overt or inadvertent gender norming. It often feels, though, that one must simply pick a side and be either an ally or an enemy, the way Ibram Kendi forces everyone into either racism or anti-racism. What I wonder, about my friend's eldest, is whether they felt that remaining conventionally gay (as they'd been through high school) would have been abnormal, if there was some degree of in-grouping happening there. But I suppose once someone is an adult, they make their own decisions, and it's not as if these newer versions are so different from the hippies who gave up privilege to live off the land and raise their children in ways that their grandparents thought to be feral.

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